If you would like hints to help your baby’s sleep, go to How to help my baby’s sleep?
How can you establish a sleep routine? Here are a few suggested things you can do:
- Calm activities early evening;
Finishing with the bath and massage can relax and lead to sleep. Feeding them earlier prevents the baby from falling asleep on the breast or their parents’ arms with their bottle. Why? Because over time, they learn to associate sleep with feeding (something in their mouth) or their parents’ arms. They will develop this habit to fall asleep.
The baby has to learn to fall asleep alone without calling on their parents. Parents aren’t being mean when they do this…it’s NORMAL! You can rock them, sing them a soft lullaby. Preferably, you should lay them down in their bed, with nothing in their mouth, before they fall asleep in your arms. For example, when they’re drowsy. They see themselves in their bed before sleeping, with your calming hand on their chest. You can gently rock them before the sleep fairy takes them away and you leave the room.
- For a baby between 4 and 12 months:
Starting from four months of age, the schedule should be more predictable, regular, both for naps and their sleep routine. You have to understand your baby’s biological clock, their sleep needs and signs of fatigue, such as:
- The baby is calmer, listless, fixed;
- Eye rubbing;
- Starts complaining, grumpy, cries a bit.
Avoid waiting too long until the baby’s overtired. This is when their reactions will be more intense. They will be agitated, cry, scream louder. You might get the impression that they’re fighting their sleep. A baby that’s put to bed too late or when they’re too tired will have difficulty falling asleep alone. They will cry more and for a longer period. To develop the best routine for your baby, you have to test different times during the day and check the results. It’s often suggested starting the sleep routine around 6:30/7:00 p.m., 8:00 p.m. maximum, because you also have to count the time it will take for them to fall asleep in their bed.
According to authors I consulted, from 4 to 12 months a baby can develop associations that can lead to bad habits.
Also, a healthy term baby aged between four and six months receives sufficient caloric intake during the day for their growth. They don’t need any more, and as such don’t need to drink at night. I know, I can hear some of you saying, “What? My baby can’t sleep a full night?! Why aren’t they then?”.
How can you know if your baby’s ready and able to sleep five or six hours in a row? It’s simple! If they have already done it by chance, they can do it again. At six months, 85% of babies can sleep at least five hours in a row at night.
Does your baby have difficulty falling asleep alone? If yes, continue reading with Sleep Problems in Babies from 0 to 1 Year.
To improve your knowledge on the subject, I also invite you to watch the video on the Sleep of babies.
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